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The Pain is Exquisite-C'est fini
All Kinds of Monsters Part Three The Third Monster: Me My monster, myself. This is the final installment of the pain series, my take on...
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Jan 313 min read
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The Pain is Exquisite, part 2
All Kinds of Monsters Part Two The Second Monster: Friends You got to have friends, right? Or so the song says. When working on your...
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Dec 6, 20243 min read
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The Pain is Exquisite, a blog in three parts
All Kinds of Monsters Introduction* Good versus evil. Truth versus lies. Beauty and the Beast . Who's turning on whom? I know you think,...
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Nov 7, 20245 min read
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Open, Shut Them
I’m baaack! After a summer hiatus from this blog space, I have returned. One of my favorite fairy tales is Sleeping Beauty. (The...
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Sep 30, 20243 min read
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A Woman Possessed
The virgin. A succubus. Devil with a Blue Dress. The Devil Inside. As a proclaimed horror lover, I’ll be honest. There is nothing that...
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Jun 3, 20243 min read
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In My Own Skin
We come into this world in blood and sometimes, we leave it in blood. Children skin their knees, their elbows. We comfort them, bandage...
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Apr 29, 20244 min read
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Breaking Point
I once wrote the words, “I write as a way of keeping my sanity.” But do I? Am I? Some days, I feel like I have my shit together. Some...
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Mar 25, 20244 min read
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Where is The Monster Hiding?
I’ve been at the writing thing for several years now. I started a blog when my children were very little. A nonfiction thing, musings...
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Feb 22, 20244 min read
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Into the Depths
Last month, I began to think and write about, “Why Horror?” and what horror can offer. I’ve taken a deeper dive down the proverbial...
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Jan 29, 20243 min read
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Why Horror?
I felt the need to address this. It brings to mind the time a few years ago when my mother asked me why I liked skulls, had them in my...
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Dec 13, 20234 min read
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Make the Time
Proud parents of 6th graders, watching their child select a shiny new instrument for the first time. You’re smiling big, glowing even....
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Nov 28, 20234 min read
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Follow the Pull
Down the rabbit hole we go. How many subgenres of horror are there? Here are some to name a few: psychological, thriller, slasher,...
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Oct 24, 20234 min read
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In Seclusion
I began to put my first book together in 2020. You know THAT year. The year when we all had more time on our hands for all the wrong...
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Sep 26, 20234 min read
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Practice Your Craft
“Ring the bell, close the book, quench the candle.” -Sidney Redlitch in Bell, Book and Candle , 1958. We all have them, rituals. We...
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Aug 16, 20233 min read
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Take a Bite
I've been thinking about the words temptation and resistance. I work in time blocks. I have my day divided into sections: Home, Admin,...
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Aug 1, 20233 min read
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Light the Match
I recently watched Ari Aster’s Midsommar for I don’t know, the fourth or fifth time. That last scene, man, when a smile begins to spread...
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Aug 1, 20232 min read
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Open the Box
“It’s a new day…and I’m feeling good.” Thinking about these lyrics today by Nina Simone. It’s a new day for this blog. Been feeling stale...
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Aug 1, 20233 min read
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